In this episode of Real Talk Uncensored, host Kedrick discusses the signs of narcissism in relationships, sharing personal observations and examples of how narcissists behave. He emphasizes the difficulty of helping friends trapped in such relationships and shares a tragic story of a friend who died by overdose after being manipulated by a narcissist.
Key Takeaways
(00:00) Signs of Narcissism: A key sign of being involved with a narcissist is that everything revolves around them. They dismiss your feelings and needs, even in emergencies, and instead focus on their own issues. For example, if you are in the hospital, they might complain about a headache and demand you take care of them.
(02:35) Ignoring and Excuses: Narcissists often ignore you for days or weeks, leaving messages on read, and then provide excuses like a dead phone or being out of service, even when evidence contradicts them. This behavior is intentional and designed to control and manipulate.
(04:28) Never Their Fault: Narcissists never take responsibility for their actions. If they cheat, they blame you, saying things like 'if you cooked more' or 'if you paid more attention.' This constant blame-shifting is meant to lower your self-esteem and elevate themselves.
(06:11) Endorphin Bond: Some women release endorphins during sex that are compared to those of childbirth, creating a strong bond similar to a mother's connection with her child. This biological bond can make it extremely difficult for women to leave a narcissistic partner, even when faced with clear evidence of wrongdoing.
(08:10) Tragic Consequences: Kedrick shares a personal story of a friend who died by overdose 24 hours after her narcissistic partner told her she was worthless and that no one else would want her. This highlights the severe emotional and psychological damage narcissists can inflict, sometimes leading to fatal outcomes.
(09:29) Helping Friends: It is often impossible to help someone in a narcissistic relationship unless they themselves want to leave. Even with proof and support, they will make excuses and rationalize the behavior. The only way out is if the person decides to leave on their own.

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This conversation explores interracial dating through personal memories of racism, cultural misunderstandings, attraction, and relationship expectations. The speakers compare how people from different racial and cultural backgrounds may approach dating, while emphasizing that individual personality matters more than stereotypes. They then examine the benefits and dangers of long-distance relationships, especially the need for communication and trust. The discussion concludes with a candid account of a marriage that grew out of distance and the complications of dating in a tightly connected small-town social circle.

Overview
In this debut episode, hosts Big Smooth Ked Jones and Lamar tackle the distinction between genuine depression and attention-seeking pity. The conversation was prompted by a real-life situation involving someone who acknowledged having mental health issues but refused to seek available help, citing distance and convenience as excuses.
Key Topics Discussed
1. Refusing Available Help The hosts discuss a person who admits to having mental health issues but won't travel to get treatment, claiming it's too far. Both hosts strongly argue that if you need help, distance shouldn't be a barrier — there are options like telehealth, rides from friends, Uber, and even primary care doctors who can now diagnose and refer patients for mental health treatment.
2. Accountability and Mental Health Both hosts share personal experiences with mental health. Lamar attends weekly therapy and drives 20 minutes to his appointments without complaint. Big Smooth Ked Jones manages his depression independently but emphasizes that if his condition worsened, he would seek professional help immediately, especially given his responsibilities as a parent and caregiver.
3. The Danger of Compounding Problems They warn that ignoring mental health issues causes problems to pile up — eventually you "crack," and the fallout affects not just you but everyone around you. Pushing away the people trying to help leaves you completely alone when things get worst.
4. Brutal Honesty vs. Yes-Men A major theme is the value of friends who tell you the raw truth versus those who just agree with everything you say. The hosts argue that yes-men ultimately screw you over by validating bad decisions, while honest friends — even if it hurts your feelings — are the ones who actually care.
5. Social Media Performative Grief The hosts call out people who dismiss someone's struggles while they're alive, then post angel-wing tribute photos on Facebook after tragedy strikes, claiming they were "always there" for that person. They find this deeply hypocritical and frustrating.
6. The Truth Nobody Wants to Swallow They note that people often seek advice hoping to hear what they want rather than the truth — and when a close friend tells them the same thing a therapist or stranger later tells them, they'll accept it from the stranger but reject it from the friend.
What's Next
The hosts tease an upcoming second episode covering why people block others on social media, get mad, and then send a friend request back weeks later — and the double standard around brutal honesty in relationships.

In this episode, Lamar and I dive into the complexities of honesty in relationships, particularly focusing on the importance of being blunt and straightforward about intentions. I share my frustrations about how often people beat around the bush instead of clearly stating what they want, especially in dating scenarios. We discuss the double standards that exist, such as how men are often expected to accept a woman's desire for friendship after a romantic advance is rejected, while women can feel hurt if a man expresses the same sentiment.
I emphasize the need for adults to communicate openly and honestly, sharing personal anecdotes about my experiences with people who have led me on or made excuses. We touch on the frustrations of being ignored while others complain about their lack of attention, and I express my belief that if someone isn't interested, they should just say so upfront.
Lamar and I also explore the idea of matching attitudes with actions, particularly in the context of social media and dating. We critique the superficiality of Instagram culture, where many present a false image of themselves, and discuss how this affects real-life interactions.
As we wrap up, we hint at future episodes, including a discussion on the dynamics of "thoughts" versus "fuckboys" and our upcoming fantasy football picks. Overall, this episode is a candid exploration of honesty, communication, and the challenges of modern dating.

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Hosts Kendrick and Lamar tackle the serious issue of intimate partner violence, sharing hard statistics and personal experiences about men who put their hands on women. They discuss prevention, anger management, parenting lessons, and the overlooked reality of male victims, while calling for accountability and safer responses.
The episode blends candid storytelling with practical advice and raises complex questions about how society responds to abuse, including how cases are often flipped or dismissed and how to protect loved ones.

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In this episode Kendrick and Lamar tackle the controversial Texas decision to roll back Roe v. Wade, discussing what the change means, potential consequences for women, and the controversial enforcement measures being proposed.
They then shift to relationships — how past partners, pride, and flaked plans can control your present — offering blunt advice on boundaries, honesty, and moving on. The hosts also announce plans to go live on Podbean with listener call-ins and occasional contests.

IN A EPISODE FROM A OLD PODCAST OF MINE IM BRINGING OVER host Kedrick discusses whether staying in a failing relationship "for the kids" is truly the best option, sharing his own marriage and co-parenting experience after recognizing a toxic environment.
He also tackles double standards in relationships — especially around jealousy, exes, and controlling behavior — and previews future episodes with guests and conversations aimed at open, uncensored dialogue.

Big Smooth speaks candidly from a dialysis clinic about his kidney failure, long hospital stays, and the daily struggles of dialysis treatment.He contrasts his former wrestling persona with the emotional reality of living with chronic illness, describing diet limits, pain, itching, and how it affects relationships and confidence.He explains his goal to get back on the transplant list, the obstacles he faces, and why he created this podcast as a place to vent and connect while asking listeners to pray for him.

The host recaps an unpredictable Week 4 of NFL action, highlighting surprise upsets (Cleveland over Pittsburgh, Rams comeback, Patriots over Bills), key injuries, breakout teams (Raiders, Vikings, Browns) and standout performances like Derrick Henry.The episode wraps with Week 5 predictions for every game, commentary on team standings, and a preview of upcoming matchups — inviting listener reactions and saying a co-host may join next week.

Welcome to Episode 3 of Big Smooth Productions, where host Ked and first-time guest Kavian break down the Money in the Bank card, give match-by-match predictions (Becky vs Liv, the women's and men's ladder matches, Bronson Reed vs Oba Femi, and Roman Reigns vs LA Knight), and debate who will cash in and who will walk out with gold.
They also preview possible storylines, pick favorites like Lash and Trick for briefcases, and promise more reviews and follow-ups on Raw, SmackDown, NXT and future live events.

The host delivers a brief, candid take on the Lindsay Clancy case, explaining why he stopped debating it after the mistrial and breaking down issues around postpartum pleas, insanity versus prison, and the lack of conclusive evidence pointing to others.He also discusses the toxicity of social media arguments, how the controversy affected personal friendships, and invites respectful listeners to join a future podcast conversation.

Welcome to the debut episode of Big Smooth Productions, hosted by Kendrick (Big Smooth). This episode is a quick test where Kendrick explains a new realization about why he avoids relationships.He argues that social media skews perceptions of love and dating—highlighting one-sided posts, exaggerated drama, and unrealistic expectations—and shares how that shaped his boundaries and approach to dating.The episode closes with candid thoughts on gender roles, responsibility, and emotional control, plus a tease about a possible guest and upcoming Money in the Bank predictions.